emerge::day1

Today is the day I’ve been waiting for.
He is coming today. But i think he is not in a good mood. He looks very tired.
Ya i know, yesterday he got a youth momentum and the preparation cost him a lot of stamina.
Then today i meet him @ harbourfront after that we head to lucky plaza. He will stay there with his friends. Rent 4 rooms.
Then after everyone finish bathing we go to EXPO to see the EMERGE.
But we are late and cannot enter the Hall 8. So after watching through the big screen outside, we decide to go home. Err not going home, but go somewhere else to shop. They plan to go to Bugis and shop there. But finally we go to Esplanade.
Already very tired, he doesn’t want to walk until Merlion Park. So we just sit outside Esplanade there. I can see he is very tired. I also feel tired, some more he does.
Must go from Jakarta to Batam at 6.30 am. Then take ferry to singapore.
Well, i hope he has a good rest tonight so tomorrow can have a cheerful day
Well.. good nite.
Here is the photo of our team

From upleft hany – Sudiman – Darwin – Me – Ari
From below, left: Michael – Michal – Aris – George.
Cameraman: Juned.
Hehe… @ MRT heading to expo. energy 50%.

Below are some random pics i take.

Old sewing machine….

angel

My rebounded hair… 6mths old.

Cheese

My lovely pink lappie

.feat Jovi

random

Today no mood to write oledi.
I went to Orchard to see GSS (Great Singapore Sale). First went to Giordano. But 1 jacket & 1 T-shirt. cost $29.
Then walk to Takashimaya. Go to guess. but i dun like any. then go to Zara. No discount yet, still normal price. Then… have dinner with my roomie.
Aft tat walk to Wisma Atria. buy another 2 tops. $46. ex. but very nice
Hmmm….
This morning i was busy. Reach office, my job oledi wait for me.
My boss asked Chai n me to design brochure. But we nver have idea abt the brochure.
Then… maybe d deadline is tomorrow which is Thursday, 11 am . Not today since he sent the email on 30 May, 00.15 am. Haha.
But when my boss reached office this morning (today he came early), he said the deadline is TODAY!
Oh well… means i only got 2 hrs to finish but still haven’t come the idea.
Haiyoh! But whatever la… go browsing first, find a template… browse pictures.
Then okie lor, try to start. Actually i’m not really good in creativity. But no choice lor.
Must finish ler. Then do until 11.30. then finish.
Haha… umm.. See…

ok la.. enough for today.
Cant wait for tomolo. Hope tml coming soon and can be a nice day.=)

understanding & communication

This morning when i wake up, suddenly i feel dizzy…
Oh no! swt!
It’s coming again. The low blood pressure…
Sigh!

But i have something to blog about.
So i force my self to write. because i don’t want to lay down on my bed only the whole day.
I’m afraid i cannot get up later.

What i’m going to blog is about this:
(See nice pic below from Stick Girl)
Yes correct, I will blog about love.
Few days ago i talked to my colleague. Then my conclusion is, love needs understanding and communication.
This two are the most important things needed by couple.
Without understanding, you will nag your partner about everything. Always take take and take and never try to give. You will not understand what your partner feel and need.
Without communication, all misunderstanding will come to you.
In a relationship is important to spend sometime together and talk. Can talk about each self so you can understand each other. Build a good communication to help you understand each other.
In every condition, communicate it nicely with partner. Our anger, our happiness, our sadness.
My colleague said, “Happiness you can share with anyone, but sadness usually shared with our beloved one, hope she/he can understand and give courage.”
The beloved one will be shared the deepest feeling of him so that she can understand him and show care to him.

But sometimes we have tendency to act like a child.
We don’t want to know about other people but ask people to understand us. To fulfill what our need are without knowing their needs too.
We, especially girls, want the boys to know us without saying any single words.
Sometime i think, girls can do that. We can understand what people wants or needs using our feeling, our heart. But, usually guys won’t do that. They usually use their thoughts.
That’s the difference between guys and girls.
We, girls, must learn to express our feeling with words. Tell the guys what we feel, what we want. so that they can understand us without guessing and guessing.
Yes that’s true, but guys, sometimes you need to use your heart to understand girls.:D

Relationship is not that easy. Not only need “likes/loves” to go into relationship.
This 2 things you need to bring along into relationship… understanding and communication.

22.44

Hari yang super bosenin.
Tanya kenapa?
Karena gw kaga ada kerjaan hari ini. Bengong.
Chatting mpe puyeng, browsing ampe pusing. Masi saja tidak bisa membunuh waktu.
Seolah ingin mengejek, waktu sengaja berjalan dengan sangat lambat.

Pergi ke Farrer park naek bis no 131.
30 stops dari bukit merah. dengan $1.38 di dalam ez link card.
Harap-harap cemas cukup tidak sampe tmpat tujuan.
Ternyata cukup. Nyaris! $1.28. Sisa $0.10.
Hanya demi mengambil sekotak 6kg titipan nyokap. berisi indomie dan beberapa kue2, serta kebutuhan sehari2.
Pulang dari sana tersesat. No bus, no mrt, no taxi.
Jadi jalan, jalan, tanya orang, jalan lagi, liat kanan kiri kanan kiri…
ga ada taksi lewat..
sepiii…
akhrinya setelah menunggu menunggu, lewat sebuah taksi bertuliskan sembawang.
Ck.. dia mo ke sembawang, mau gak ya k clementi dulu.
setelah berhasil melambai, akhirnya dia mo nganter gw ke clementi. Fiuhh..
Lega bisa pulang. :p

Sekarang, mata tinggal 5watt.
Uda mo merem aja ni mata. tapi sbnernya masi blom pengen bobok sih.
Habis kalo bobok, pagi cepat datang.
PErasaan pagi baru aja datang. Sekarang uda malem.
Ni waktu ga mo kompromi.
Setelah lewat jam kantor, waktu kembali berlari…
Sudah saatnya mengistirahatkan mata, pikiran, dan badan.
Good nite all.

doa para lajang

Doa Para Lajang

Thank God, untuk…
Kemerdekaan menjalani hidup
Keleluasaan mengejar karier
Waktu melimpah untuk hang-out
Masa yang panjang untuk bersenang-senang
Tidur yang nyenyak tanpa dengkuran
Kemewahan untuk menikmati kesendirian
(dan banyak lagi yang terlalu panjang untuk kami sebut semua dalam doa kami… )

Beri kami kesabaran untuk…
Tidak kurang ajar menghadapi tuntutan orang tua
Selalu tersenyum bila ditanya mengapa keenakan melajang
Tidak tertawa atas curhat tentang urusan rumah tangga

Beri kami kekuatan untuk…
Tidak melepas masa lajang karena everybody does
Tidak melepas masa lajang karena takut stigma perawan tua (Bujang lapuk)
Tidak melepas masa lajang karena dianggap menghalangi jalan adik kami
Tidak melepas masa lajang karena terlanjur berbadan dua (membuat orang laen berbadan 2)
Tidak melepas masa lajang untuk bayar utang

Dear God…
Biarkan kami menikmati kesendirian kami
Dan merelakannya pergi pada waktunya
Atau bila kau anggap kami terlalu egois bersenang-senang sendiri
Berikan kami teman terbaik untuk berbagi kesenangan
The best one according to Your will, not our will.
AMEN……. …. =D

love in many point of view.

THE ORIGINAL VERSION:
If you love something,
Set it free…
If it comes back, it’s yours,
If it doesn’t, it never was yours….

THE PESSIMIST VERSION:
If you love somebody,
Set her free …
If she ever comes back, she’s yours,
If she doesn’t, well, as expected, she
never was.

THE OPTIMIST VERSION:
If you love somebody,
Set her free …
Don’t worry, she will come back.

THE SUSPICIOUS VERSION:
If you love somebody,
Set her free …
If she ever comes back, ask her why.

THE IMPATIENT VERSION:
If you love somebody,
Set her free …
If she doesn’t comes back within some
time limit,
Forget her.

THE PATIENT VERSION:
If you love somebody,
Set her free …
If she doesn’t come back, continue to wait,
Until she comes back …

THE PLAYFUL VERSION:
If you love somebody,
Set her free …
If she comes back, and if you love her still,
Set her free again, repeat *

THE LAWYER’S VERSION:
If you love somebody,
Set her free…
Clause 1a of Paragraph 13a-1 in the
second
amendment of the Matrimonial
Freedom
Act clearly states that…

THE BILL GATES VERSION:
If you love somebody,
Set her free…
If she comes back,
I think we can charge her for re-
installation fees
and tell her that
she’s also
going to get an upgrade.

THE STATISTICIAN’S VERSION::
If you love somebody,
Set her free…
If she loves you, the probability of her
coming
back is high,
If she doesn’t, your relationship was
improbable
anyway.

THE POSSESSIVE VERSION:
If you love somebody,
Don’t ever set her free.

THE MBA VERSION:
If you love somebody,
Set her free…
Instantaneously…
And look for others simultaneously.

THE PSYCHOLOGIST’S VERSION:
If you love somebody,
Set her free…
If she comes back, her super ego is
dominant,
If she doesn’t come, back her id is
supreme,
If she doesn’t go, she must be crazy.

THE FINANCE EXPERT VERSION:
If you love somebody,
Set her free…
If she comes back, its time to look for
fresh loans.
If she doesn’t, write her off as an asset
gone bad.

THE MARKETING VERSION:
If you love somebody,
Set her free…
If she comes back, she has brand loyalty
If she doesn’t, reposition the brand in new
markets.

obat bobo

Hari ini dikasi tau tmen kantor.. ada yang baca blog gw sampe pagi buta.
krn ga bs tidur dia bangun baca blog gw.
wakkaka. ga tau harus tersanjung atau tersandung.
Maksudnya blog gw jadi obat tidurnya dia gitu?
swt!

Again post nonsense.
Haha…

happy day

These few days i felt stressed. That caused my monthly cycle not stable. Sigh.
Today i’m quite happy can tok to him in messenger after few days lost contact. Only few days lor! but feel like oledi a week or a month.
Then today oso quite busy, so time run so fast when see the clock oledi 5pm.
Somemore the air con is very friendly to me (not to others) The air con is not so cold, actually just okie for me, but for others is very warm (hot). Haahaa…
I hope can last for a week!
or MORE! I dunno y today i’m so happy.

pom

Today i play “Maliq-Terdiam” in my winamp.
This song brings me back to 2 yrs ago. Umm yes 2 yrs ago. Reminds me to the sweet memories i ever had.
With the POM Binusian 2009 committee.
I miss that moment so much.
I miss them so much.
I wish can turn back to the past.
Close my eyes for awhile.
Remembering the tiring moment, time we laughed out together, remebering time we scolded out the new ppl.
Remembering punishing ‘em. Remembering their scared face, remembering the hottest weather then we still needed to stand watching the binusian.
Almost everyday that time we met each other. Ate a lot, slept late, cried together, laughed together.
hanged out together, watched movie together.
I wish i can have another sweet moment like that.
Miss you all guys.
Miss ‘em so much…

game

These days i am very bored.
Then i always play this game named Virtual Villager at home.
The game is about building a village.
3 people oledi died. T_T . One of them is a Master Farmer. Sigh.

But i still have another master farmer in d village. heee heeh.
Here is d overview map.
They can plant crops, learn healing plants, build houses, bury d dead body, do researching.
So far i already solved 8 puzzles. 50% done. Have another 8 puzzles to go. Another game i played is TRAVIAN.
This is a statistical game. All you can play still to build your village. But in this game you must prepare your self to be attacked by your neighbour.
This is an online game. A bit boring. all you need to do is to upgrade your resources.
You have(crops, iron mine, clay pit, and lumber) This you need to build your village.
Then you can join alliance with other players. Or you can build your own alliances.